This Police Wife Went From Hating His Job To…Feeling Stronger than Ever Even with Him Working a Ton of Overtime
You’re glaring at your police, fire or military husband wondering if you could even have another child, because you feel like everything is falling on you while he’s working all. of. the. time.
Meanwhile, my deputy K9 wife client… just welcomed her 2nd child into their glowing, happy family
My client went from hating all the time that her husband’s law enforcement job took away from the family to feeling fully supported by her husband to choose to welcome a 2nd baby into their adorable family.
When my client first came to me, she asked,
“Why do I need to be the one to put in the work in our marriage?”
Within her first month of joining Resilient Ride Along, her husband surprised her by showing that he would put in the work too.
Her husband felt like she didn’t support his career.
He wasn’t too off base. She had been a teacher before becoming a SAHM to their new baby.
She was used to weekends, holidays and evenings off… and his schedule was the opposite. She couldn’t wrap her head around it.
But, she loved him and wanted to work on it.
Inside Resilient Ride Along, my client embraced a Gratitude Mindset
She initiated my 30 Day Gratitude Challenge and guess what?
Her husband voluntarily did it with her… including surprising her in the middle of one of our coaching calls with chocolates + flowers.
Secondly, she adopted Independent Daily Routines.
She stopped waiting around for his schedule to work out. She used my Self Care as Free as Washer Bullets framework.
She started taking a trip to see family solo with her son sometimes. Sure, they took family trips together too. She started regular stroller walks with her son with workouts so she didn’t have to wait for her husband to be home.
Third, she learned my Assertive Trauma Informed Communication method.
Prior to Resilient Ride Along, she felt like her husband rushed her when she wanted to share her feelings.
After learning my Assertive Trauma Informed Communication method, she felt heard and saw the support she desired. Her husband began bathing their toddler, cleaning the kitchen and more. You can learn two steps of my Assertive Trauma Informed Communication method in my free training, He’s Got Your Back.
Fourth, my client developed Consistent, Quality Time Together.
She and her husband decided on a predictable time to spend time together weekly to rekindle their flame.
Sure, it didn’t look like everyone else’s but they learned not to care what everyone else was doing.
You’re waiting for your partner to make the first move meanwhile the fastest way to get what you want…a strong relationship where you feel safe and supported by your man no matter what his schedule is…
No shift, schedule, deployment nor job change required…is for you to take the first move to heal.
My deputy K9 wife client took the first step by joining Resilient Ride Along for 6 months.
Now? They not just “stronger than ever even though he works more overtime than ever” in my clients words…
They’ve welcomed a new baby into the family too. In her words…
This transformation is 100% possible for you. Resilient Ride Along is the only program you need to make this your reality.