Individuals/Couples Coaching Package

When she first came to me, my client, a police and veteran wife of more than ten years, felt like her marriage was slipping away. The man who had once been affectionate and open was now retreating into his man cave on his days off leaving my client alone to care for her and their school-age girls. The weight of trauma had snowballed for him, and while she longed to be close, every attempt she made to talk about it only seemed to push him further. She told him she felt sad that he wasn’t as affectionate anymore, but he had no words to give back. She was left feeling shut out—physically and emotionally.

She wanted more closeness, but the harder she tried, the more disconnected she felt. Every conversation left her second-guessing herself, wondering if this distance was permanent. She was stuck between loving him deeply and resenting the loneliness of a marriage that no longer felt like a partnership.

Inside our one-on-one coaching, everything began to shift. She started with the 30-Day Gratitude Challenge, learning to see and acknowledge what he was already doing right. Almost immediately, her perspective shifted—and so did his. Within just days, he began stepping in more: helping with their girls, running errands without being asked, even vacuuming for her. The walls that had felt so high began to lower, not through pressure, but through a shift in how she noticed and communicated.

Then she learned how to use Gentle Observation and Assertive Trauma-Informed Communication—tools that allowed her to meet him where he was, as both a police officer and a veteran. Instead of pushing for answers he couldn’t give, she began talking to him in a way that made him feel safe to open back up. And slowly, the closeness she longed for returned.

Within a month, the affection she feared was gone forever was back in her marriage. One night, she told me with tears in her eyes, her husband let her snuggle him and he snuggled back—then, with a playful grin, smacked her butt. It was such a small thing, but for her, it was everything. It was proof that their connection was still there, waiting to be nurtured back to life.

This is what happens inside Individual Coaching. It’s not about forcing conversations or pretending everything is fine. It’s about learning the mindset, tools, and daily shifts that make it possible to feel close again—even after distance, trauma, and years of disconnection. It’s about moving from loneliness to laughter, from tension to tenderness, from wondering if you’ll ever get him back to knowing you have him right here, leaning into you again.

Just hear it from my client…